Breaking Barriers: Sunney Lemons-Bowden’s Journey as Tarleton State University’s First Female Mechanical Engineering Grad
Pursuing a Master of Science in Mechanical Engineering at Tarleton State University wasn’t something I took lightly. My entire program was completed online while balancing a full-time job as an automation engineer, planning a wedding, staying close to family and friends, and managing a course load heavier than full-time. There were times I felt like I was standing still while others moved forward in their careers. But I realized I wasn’t behind—I was exactly where God needed me. In the chaos, He gave me grace, community, and joy. My professors were incredibly supportive, and my online classmates, though I never met most in person, became a true source of encouragement. Through it all, I grew not only academically but personally and spiritually. My husband’s daily support reminded me I was capable and never alone.
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Discovering My Calling in Engineering
Diagnosed with dyslexia in second grade, learning didn’t come easy. But my parents believed in me and helped me see it as a strength. I used to hate math—until Mrs. Jones came along. She made it make sense and was the first person to tell me I had an engineering brain. Her belief in me changed everything. After praying, researching, and seeking guidance from mentors, I found my calling in mechanical engineering at Tarleton State University. I wouldn’t be here without the love and support of those who walked alongside me.
The Challenges—and the Strength That Came From Them
Graduate school was demanding. One assignment could take several days, and being the only woman in the program added to the weight. But what surprised me most was the community we built online. My classmates became teammates, and we helped carry each other through. My husband’s encouragement became my lifeline. His faith in me helped me keep going when I questioned myself. I was reminded that perseverance isn’t meant to be done alone.
Why I Chose Tarleton State University
Honestly, I hesitated at first. The program was new, and school had always been hard for me. But I knew if I didn’t start, I might never try. Tarleton State University felt like home—especially after helping found the Society of Women Engineers chapter during undergrad. What made Tarleton State University special was how known and valued I felt. Professors from outside my discipline encouraged me and poured into my journey. That kind of care is something I’ll never forget.
Becoming the First
Being the first woman to graduate from this program is humbling. It’s not just my achievement—it’s a reflection of every person who helped me get here. I hope my story encourages others, especially women and those with dyslexia, to keep moving forward even when the path is unclear. When God calls you to something, He equips you for it. I’m living proof of that.
Being a Woman in a Male-Dominated Field
The challenges were real—from being overlooked in school to facing discrimination in the workforce. At times, it was heartbreaking. But I leaned into my faith, reminded myself of my worth, and showed up with excellence. That quiet, daily perseverance is how real change begins.
Advice for Women in Engineering
Know your strengths. Work on your weaknesses. But don’t let either define your value. Emotional intelligence, compassion, and care are assets. Let your curiosity lead and your mistakes teach. You belong in this field—even if you’re the only woman in the room. Celebrate others. Show up boldly. Be real. You don’t need to be fearless—you just need to be faithful. And remember: if you’re the first, don’t be the last.
What’s Next
Currently, I work as an automation engineer at Emerson Electric Co., but I’ve always been drawn to aerospace. I plan to pursue certifications and training with the hope of working with the Space Force. I also feel called to motherhood. I want to raise children who know they can pursue big dreams and still serve at home. I don’t know what that balance will look like, but I trust the God who called me to both.
by Madison Wooten