{"id":26647,"date":"2019-12-12T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-12-12T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/web.tarleton.edu\/news\/tragedy-drives-tarleton-commencement-speaker-to-career-choice\/"},"modified":"2025-10-07T09:45:26","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T14:45:26","slug":"tragedy-drives-tarleton-commencement-speaker-to-career-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tarleton.edu\/news\/tragedy-drives-tarleton-commencement-speaker-to-career-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"Tragedy drives Tarleton commencement speaker to career choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE<\/p>\n<p>Thursday, December 12, 2019<\/p>\n<p>STEPHENVILLE, Texas &mdash;&nbsp;A family tragedy steered Alyssa Ruffin toward what she hopes will be her life&rsquo;s work. She graduates with a degree in child and family studies from Tarleton State University-Waco in 1 p.m. ceremonies Saturday, Dec. 14, at Wisdom Gym in Stephenville.<\/p>\n<p>She also will tell her story as the keynote speaker.<\/p>\n<p>Alyssa started at Dallas Baptist University on a degree plan in camp and support leadership. Then during her freshman year the unthinkable happened.<\/p>\n<p>Her little cousin was diagnosed with brain cancer.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;She passed away at 15 months old,&rdquo; Alyssa said. &ldquo;At the hospital, she had a child life specialist. The family talked about how good it was that there was someone they could talk to who was so directed to the child and the family.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I love children, and after that I knew that I wanted to be a child life specialist in a hospital setting.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>What exactly does a child life specialist do? &ldquo;Play therapy, trying to normalize the hospital experience for children. I&rsquo;m wanting to specialize, I think, in oncology and work with children in that area.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Alyssa was a decorated athlete at Cooper High School in Abilene, earning all-district honors in basketball and volleyball as well as team MVP in both sports. A member of the Honors College at Tarleton, she&rsquo;s also a musician, playing drums and guitar for the worship band with Tarleton-Waco&rsquo;s Baptist Student Ministry.<\/p>\n<p>Despite the circumstances that altered her study path, she promises an upbeat commencement address.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I am going to talk about passion,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;How when you find your passion it can lead to your purpose in life. &ldquo;<\/p>\n<p>The Abilene Cooper graduate came to Tarleton-Waco when her DBU roommate transferred to the Central Texas campus. What especially drew her to Tarleton was its child life program; she said there was no such program at Dallas Baptist.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I was in psychology and hoping to work my way into the field with that degree,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;I realized Tarleton had a degree plan with specific coursework in child life. It seems they were more in tune with my career plans and goals.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>To support her passion even further, Alyssa begins studying for her master&rsquo;s in January at Texas Woman&rsquo;s University in Denton.<\/p>\n<p>Tarleton, founding member of The Texas A&amp;M University System, provides a student-focused, value-driven education marked by academic innovation and a dedication to transform today&rsquo;s scholars into tomorrow&rsquo;s leaders. It offers degree programs to more than 13,000 students at Stephenville, Fort Worth, Waco, Midlothian, RELLIS Academic Alliance in Bryan, and online, emphasizing real-world learning experiences that address societal needs while maintaining its core values of tradition, integrity, civility, excellence, leadership and service.<\/p>\n<p>Contact: Phil Riddle<br \/>817-484-4415<br \/>priddle<a href=\"mailto:priddle@tarleton.edu\">@tarleton.edu<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A family tragedy steered Alyssa Ruffin toward what she hopes will be her life&rsquo;s work. 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