Living in Community

What does it mean to live "in community?" It's more than merely living in the same building as other students. In Housing & Residence Life at Tarleton State University, we view community living as a fundamental step in our student's developing as global citizens. We view this as a key opportunity for you as a student to develop socially while you're developing academically. While much of your college experience will be oriented around your individual dreams and goals, it is important to remember that you're a part of something much bigger. We believe that your experience living in community at Tarleton State University will be an exciting time of growth as an individual, but it should also help you grow in your understanding of responsibility to those around you in your residence hall, campus and world community.

Stop for a moment and think about the idea of being a part of something bigger than you. What are the benefits as you become a part of the Tarleton State University community? What are your responsibilities? Living in a community is about understanding: that you matter to the community, the community needs your talents and effort, and that all students have a role to play.

A community is what its citizens make of it. At Tarleton State University, we want you arrive ready to make it a place of excellence!

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Living with roommates

Beginning your college experience can bring a mixture of emotions: excitement over new possibilities; nervousness over leaving home and learning about new places and people; concern over living with a new roommate who might be a stranger. They don't yet know your personality - your likes and dislikes, your sense of humor, your habits.

Housing & Residence Life is here to make your transition to Tarleton State University as smooth as possible. How well you get along with your new roommate can be an important aspect of your college experience. We're here to help you and your roommate with communication, assist in sorting through problems that might occur and get involved if the need arises.

Ten important tips for a good roommate relationship

1. Get to know each other. You have your first chance to make a new friend at Tarleton State University. Ask each other questions about your family, interests, academic goals, etc.
2. Talk it out. Patient communication is crucial in developing a successful relationship as roommates.
3. Be open and friendly. You and your roommate might have different tastes in clothing and music. Much of the college experience is learning about differences. But you probably share many of the same questions and concerns about your new community. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and ask questions.
4. Be understanding. We all have bad days. Remember that you might not always be aware of issues with which your roommate is dealing, but there is likely a good reason for their actions. A sympathetic ear might help.
5. Give each other space. Togetherness can be great, but too much of a good thing can be a problem. You need time alone - so does your roommate. If the time doesn't come naturally, talk to your roommate about it.
6. Ask before you borrow. Different people are going to have different levels of comfort with lending they're belongings. Asking first can avoid uncomfortable misunderstandings.
7. Define "neat." You have your roommate to consider, whether you're a "neat freak" or a slob. With some give and take, you can both adjust to make your environment comfortable.
8. Share an extracurricular activity. Having something in common to share and talk about can be helpful. If you're not involved in the same activities, you're likely to see each other only at bedtime. You might feel like you're sleeping in a room with a stranger.
9. Schedule study times. Tell your roommate in advance when you have a big test or paper coming due. That way they'll know when to give you some quiet time. Be willing to show them the same respect.
10. Live by the golden rule. "Do unto others, as you would have done unto you..."